Troubles?

Today started off really bad. My husband, probably the most perfect person/husband/father there is, and I had a huge fight. We don't fight because of problems with us but today it seemed that we both took everything personally. I really blew up, he was upset. I guess the stress of everything that we both are going thru has finally caught up with us. I know it is catching up with me. I love my husband, our children, and my life with him. I would not trade him or being with him for anything.

I am stressed, always waiting for the next shoe to drop, and he is way over-worked. I think part of the problem is that we love each other so much we are always trying to do right by the other, probably too much. I wish he would do something active and release stress. I teach aerobics a couple of times a week and I know that helps me.

I know I am not easy to be around when I am stressed, and I am not proud of it. I try to keep things bottled up and I am horrible about it. I seem to either blow or hunker down and retreat. I am not good at just talking about an issue at the time because it seems that I am always misunderstood so I just wait until I can't take it anymore.

We are very happy with each other and love each other so much. I just want him to enjoy his life and be active.